Bittersweet honorUnexpected and
delightful
I had visitors over the weekend. Unexpected
ones, but delightful ones all the
same.
An old friend and her husband and her 14 year old son dropped in on Wednesday. She and I had dated and slept together, well, at least fifteen years ago I guess. Probably closer to eighteen. Guess I am getting older. She has aged remarkably well. Originally from Haiti, her lovely accent and marvelous skin color triggered some great memories. Oh, and her scent, can't forget that. If she hadn't married and promised to be a one-and-only, I might have tried again for old times sake. Her husband is well educated and knows how to use that brain of his. I heartily approve of her choice. Their boy shows every sign of being just as smart as his parents. So of course he asked if I used to date his mom. I told him yes. Then we wandered into one of those awkward social areas that teens (and especially BRIGHT teens) love to nose out. And I could tell that his dad was laughing at his wife and I. The kid asked if I wanted to sleep with his mom again. Actually he said fuck his mom, I'm sure he was going for the shock value. It's one of the few times I have seen that particular lady embarrassed, and I had the feeling that I missed the first act in this particular drama. Deep breath. Only one way through this. My feelings were irrelevant, I told him. My personal beliefs mean that The Lady Always Chooses. She was in a monogamous marriage to his dad. And that is where it stood. What he suggested wasn't even a possibility because her honor was more important to me than my own. At that point I looked at her. She winked because she knew me well enough to know what I might do next. In fact, I told the young man, he should be proud of his mom because she had honor and obviously loved his father. Just because she could be an insatiable fuck didn't mean she would make the Two-Backed Beast with just anyone. She chose to fuck me, but she chose to love her husband. And I told the boy that I thought he dishonored both his parents by trying to put his mom on the spot like that. That was Friday. Things went much better after that. I spent much of the time trying my darnedest to bend his brain. But his parents had already made things pretty flexible. This morning, the young man proved he had honor after all. He apologized to his mother, his father, and then to me (which I didn't expect). And then he cooked breakfast. A few more like him and this world might have some hope after all. Thanks to Coyote for the lessons.
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