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Occasionally I wandered in where I was not wanted and gave truthful answers.
Sometimes I even did it deliberately. A little disruption now can prevent disaster later.

Journal - Friday, October 12, 2018

Thinking by blogging

I think it's a mistake to suppress our biology in the name of politics.

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Objectify

I don't think people should be objectified, that almost always means no face associated with the body.

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Sexuality without politics

I've spent weeks researching, writing, and rewriting.

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NeoNote — #MeToo has hit modern neopaganism hard

Lately sex has also been one thing that drags politics into paganism. Politics corrupts, and I've no desire to see my faith or sex reduced to politics.
— NeoWayland
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Paganism isn't a movement

I don't think paganism is a movement. I think it's a life.
— NeoWayland
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Lock it away

The only reason I started writing about pagans and sex is because there is a strong movement to lock all that away where Respectable People Will Not Talk About the Embarrassing Stuff.
— NeoWayland
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Six new pages

I've been busy on the site, it's just not been obvious.

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Climax

I learned a long time ago that it's worth the trouble to make sure she's got at least two climaxes for every one of mine.

Keeps her smiling too.
— NeoWayland
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Sex & sex rules

Due to events of the last couple of weeks, I have rewritten my sex and sex rules lexicon entries.

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Love & sex

Sex is exploding hormones. Love is commitment. The two should not be confused.
— NeoWayland, sex
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It's a FERTILITY religion!

Should we be ashamed?

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NeoNote — Excuse for sex

It's very easy to find abusers.

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“The Opium Smoker” by Luis Ricardo Falero

Ruis liked to conflate the sexual with the forbidden.

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Fever dream

It's not a statement. It's an anti-statement.

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Under the full Moon

Tuesday and Wednesday entries combined. A bit of art, a bit of dream, a bit of speculation.

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“The Garden of Earthly Delights” by Hieronymus Bosch

About all we know for sure is that Bosch was mixing the profound with the profane of his day and age.

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Journal 02Feb2018

Thinking by blogging

I got to do the internet frustration thing again.

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A bonding behavior

Many think they want fun when they want a relationship.

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Share and enjoy

As someone who is not part of the pickup culture or the marriage culture, I'm pretty sure about one thing.

If you want to sleep with someone more than a couple of times, you'd better find something other than sex you can share and enjoy.

One reason why marriage can work is because sex isn't the goal, nor is it the reward for a job well done.
— NeoWayland
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Summing up the circus

Here's the quick take for those of you who don't want to dig through the whole internet.

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Sex & consent

I've been examining my own assumptions about sex and consent.

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Old discussions

Links to the TWH comment threads on Gavin Frost and Kenny Klein

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NeoNotes — A long hard look

If it works for you and challenges you to be a better person, more power to you. It is not my place to question that, it's between you and the Divine.

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Three sentences

I will give you three sentences and it will undo everything you have said on this thread and leave no doubt that I say what I mean.

People are responsible for their own actions and must accept the consequences for those actions.

I don't care what anyone's sexual taste is as long as they confine it to consenting adults.

Mess with kids sexually and it's time to start chopping off your body parts.
— NeoWayland
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In defense of Bonewits' work

If his work can't stand on it's own, people will find something else.

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So much for avoiding the topic

I don't approve of older men having sex with young teens, but it has been happening from the beginning.

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Bonewits accused

“Accusations of abuse surface against ADF founder Isaac Bonewits”

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Questionable behavior

Unfortunately sometimes polyamory is a convenient label for questionable behavior. A healthy poly relationship is long term based on mutual respect. It's not an excuse to sleep with as many people as possible.
— NeoWayland
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“Cosmic Sexy Time, Eggs, Seeds, and Water: Crash Course World Mythology #3”

“In which Mike teaches you about the creation of the universe, with sex. This week we're talking about creations stories from Egypt, West Africa, Greece, China, and Persia that have a lot in common with human sexual reproduction. And also some castration and puking, to boot. We've got your cosmic eggs, right here!”

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Sleeping Gaia

Sex, nudity, nature. All in all very pagan.

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Seven points

Yes, this one is overtly sexual.

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Forest god

This Forest God is definately a Man's Man.

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Nearly a cauldron

I can almost picture a cauldron there.

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Journal 23Jun2017

Thinking by blogging

I love watching ladies sunbathing in the summer. It's purely sexual.

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Sex magick

Despite the rumors, the Great Rite doesn't happen all that often.

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The entrance

There is a cave there, a Mystery promising wonders.

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Intimacy

My views on the pillow talk problem have been professionally validated.

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What's wrong with nudity?

This is one of those articles I'm not sure if I should be publishing.

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Home

Home should be more than a place to hang our hat.

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Journal 21Apr2017

Thinking by blogging

I didn't plan to become a pagan sex advisor on ethics, but looking at my writings on sex, that's exactly what I have become.

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Freer

I think it is funny that we were freer about sexuality in the 4th century B.C. It is a little disconcerting.
     — Angelina Jolie
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Love begins at home

“It may sound like a cliché, but love begins at home.”

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“Morality in sexual relations…”

Morality in sexual relations, when it is free from superstition, consists essentially in respect for the other person, and unwillingness to use that person solely as a means of personal gratification, without regard to his or her desires.
     — Bertrand Russell
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Another Sheela na gig

I'm honestly not sure what I would use it for, but I admire the piece.

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Sexual responsiblity

Unless it's with me, who you have sex with, how you have sex, and how many times you have sex is frankly none of my business. Likewise, unless it is sex with me, I'm not responsible for the consequences.
— NeoWayland, Real & impossible rights

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Sterility cults

Yet rather than calling the earliest religions, which embraced such an open acceptance of all human sexuality, 'fertility cults,' we might consider the religions of today as strange in that they seem to associate shame and even sin with the very process of conceiving new human life. Perhaps centuries from now scholars and historians will be classifying them as 'sterility cults.'
     — Merlin Stone, When God Was A Woman
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NeoNotes — “J'accuse ...!” - updated

We pretty much agreed that women sometimes lie about rape and the code needed to take that into account. We added one small paragraph that said accusations of rape didn't necessarily mean rape.
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One of nine

Sex is one of the nine reasons for incarnation. The other eight are unimportant.
     — George Burns
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Acts of love and pleasure

Let My worship be in the heart that rejoices, for behold — all acts of love and pleasure are My rituals.
     — Doreen Valiente, Charge of the Goddess
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Life is good

Plus he’s having way too much fun.

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She gives Life

This one is obviously a god and She’s creating life

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NeoNotes — Sex positive

Sex without the emotional connection is masturbation. And just as fulfilling.
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Taproot: Taboo

“Taproots”

Because this post discusses child sexuality, the entry text has been removed from the front page and the category pages. Click the post title above or the link below to load.

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Insomina at 3 a.m.

That's when I squirm out of bed and go find a place to read or skim the internet. At least one of us should sleep.

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Changing sex

I'm changing the tag "sex" to the category "sex."

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Bloody sacrifice

I don't think animals should be killed for ritual use. I have issues with animals being killed for food. It's why I still pray before meals. I'm honoring their sacrifice even though I know they don't understand.

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Sex advice

Hold her hands, gently, almost like a caress. Tell her how you feel about her. Tell her how you feel when you are with her. Do it again in thirteen minutes, precisely.

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The Lady Always Chooses

Poetic inspiration gives a glimse. That's a long way from manifesting.

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New sex menu item

I’ve put the Sex catagory in the main menu

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Collecting pelts

Thinking by blogging

No, it wasn’t responsible. No, I’m not proud of it. And yes, it lasted longer than it should have with me.

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Totems I have known

It made my childhood interesting, some of my “imaginary” friends were really there.

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Aside for polyamory - revised

Thinking by blogging

It’s one of the few sexual labels that I bother with. It’s not that I disapprove of labels like gay, lesbian, transgender, and all the others. It’s just hard to see how the label applies to me unless we have sex.

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This is the world

Thinking by blogging

I am a sensualist. I’m telling you this because all too often pagans forget we’re supposed to bridge worlds.

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Double Teamed

After dinner, we move to the kitchen. Easier to sweep up the hair, you see.

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The hard rain

Rain in the desert is a wonderous thing

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Bend the brains

But kids (especially BRIGHT teens) know when you’re different. They like different, they’re attracted to it.

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Naked pagans & sex - updated

Pagans do not “get nekkid” so you can get your jollies.

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Wild spring

And yes, that is a phallus between his legs

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Feelings

In the dark and early, I woke my companion with hot chocolate…

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Community and being a Proper Pagan

Another look at one of my common topics

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Characters

Pagan isn't the important part

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hums softly

Playtime

Some things just make your day

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Perverted

Using Pagan practices as an excuse to collect pelts

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Fingers in the hair

Playtime

I'm not yet ready for sex beyond the physical

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Why do I do it? Internet debates, emails, and online Pagan groups

I am what I am - updated

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Last night… I dreamt I walked as a bear

Playtime

Fog & snow at NeoWayland's home

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Love

It's what brings us together

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Bittersweet honor

Unexpected and delightful

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Feeling

The little things that keep me in this world - updated

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The Robot vs. the trees

Adventures in humanity

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Sex & the Modern Pagan

What I believe and what I think is accepted in the larger “pagan community”

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Dark Side Instinct

Another reason why the peace-love-freedom-happiness bit annoys me

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Love on the rocks

Moving from the politically correct

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The most Pagan thing that happened to me this week was two and a half days of thunderstorms

Rainy day musings

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